Recommended Reading
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**JMRL Library has created a list on the topic of Death and Dying for check-out from our library system. Please visit this link to find many of these books at your local library!
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Death & Dying
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When Breath Becomes Air - Paul Kalanithi
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Being Mortal - Atul Gawande
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The Unwinding of the Miracle: A Memoir of Life, Death and Everything That Comes After - Julie Yip-Williams
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Men We Reaped - Jesmyn Ward
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Final Gifts: Understanding the Special Awareness, Needs and Communication of the Dying - Maggie Callanan
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Everything Happens for a Reason: And Other Lies I’ve Loved - Kate Bowler
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A Lesson Before Dying - Ernest Gaines
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The Cancer Journals - Audre Lorde
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The Bright Hour - Nina Riggs
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Dying Well - Ira Byock
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The Year of Magical Thinking - Joan Didion
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Death in the Family - James Agee
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A Pity Party is Still a Party: A Feed Good Guide to Feeling Bad - Chelsea Garner
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Dancing at the Pity Party: A Dead Mom Graphic Memoir - Tyler Feder
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The End of Your Life Book Club - Will Schwalbe
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On Death and Dying - Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
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The Art of Dying Well - Katy Butler
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A Beginner’s Guide to the End: Practical Advice for Living Life and Facing Death - BJ Miller, MD and Shoshana Berger
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Western Attitudes Towards Death - Phillip Aries
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The Four Things that Matter Most: A Book About Living - Ira Byock
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Reimagining Death: Stories and Practical Wisdom for Home Funerals and Green Burials - Lucinda Herring
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Death Is but a Dream: Finding Hope and Meaning at Life’s End - Christopher Kerr
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A Year to Live: How to Live this Year as if it Were Your Last - Stephen Levine
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Handbook for Mortals: Guidance for People Facing Serious Illness - Lynn
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That Good Night: Life and Medicine in the Eleventh - Sunita Puri
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A Memoir of Loss and Love - Amy Bloom
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Advice for Future Corpses - Sally Tisdale
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Knocking on Heaven’s Door - Katy Butler
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When Breath Becomes Air - Paul Calanithi
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Little Matches: A Memoir of Finding Light in Dark - Maryanne O’Hara
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The Long Goodbye - Megan O’Rourke
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Crying in H Mart: A Memoir - Michelle Zauner
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The Collected Regrets of Clover - Mikki Brammer
Death & Spirituality
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The Five Invitations - Frank Ostaseski
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The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying - Sogyal Rinpoche
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Walking Each Other Home - Ram Dass
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Being with Dying - Roshi Joan Halifax
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How We Live is How We Die - Pema Chodron
After Death Care
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Smoke Gets in Your Eyes: And Other Lessons from the Crematory - Caitlin Doughty
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From Here to Eternity: Traveling the World to Find the Good Death - Caitlin Doughty
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Will My Cat Eat My Eyeballs? - Caitlin Doughty
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Stiff: The Curious Lives of Human Cadavers - Mary Roach
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Our Last Best Act: Planning for the End of Our Lives to Protect the People and Places We Love - Mallory McDuff
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Final Rights: Reclaiming the American Way of Death - Josh Slocum & Lisa Carlson
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American afterlife : encounters in the customs of mourning - Sweeney
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Rest in peace : a cultural history of death and the funeral home in twentieth-century America - Gary Laderman
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The American Way of Death - Jessica Mitford
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Reimagining Death: Stories and Practical Wisdom for Home Funerals and Green Burials - Lucinda Herring
Grief & Grieving
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A Grief Observed - C.S. Lewis
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The Wild Edge of Sorrow - Francis Weller
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Notes on Grief - Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
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Wintering: The Power of Rest and Retreat in Difficult Times - Katherine May
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It’s OK to Laugh - Nora McInerny Purmort
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The Myth of Closure: Ambiguous Loss in a Time of Pandemic and Change - Pauline Boss
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The Grieving Brain - Mary-Frances O’Connor
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Dream New Dreams - Reimagining Life After Loss - Jai Pausch
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On Grief and Grieving - Elisabeth Kubler-Ross